Friday, February 22, 2008

the retreat was everything i wanted and more.
it was amazing. like an escape from reality.
i loved the couches and the games and the cabins.
i feel so renewed. or at least i did when i 1st got back.
right before my world came crashing down.
or at least the part with one of my best friends.
i would never have imagined it could end so quickly.
all because of some gossip that someone told.
i feel like hating the person who spread it but the truth is,
if my relationship had had a solid foundation
then something as small as a rumor wouldn't have made a difference.
so here i am
1 less friend. and 1 more lesson learned.


moving on.
my question 4 the day :
is it possible for me to be really good friends with a guy
without being attracted to them at all?

i feel like i am walking a picked fence.
not so good


i realize that i don't trust girls.
they are not sincere.
(with the exception of two people.)
i would not tell a girl even my smallest secrets
i would rather hang out with guys any day.
only thing is. i don't trust the guys that dislike like me.
and i run from the guys that do like me.

were does that leave me.

1 comment:

Ben said...

Yes! Wizard duels! Now I can check off "Have a wizard duel" from my list of life goals.

Yeah I wrote that poem. Glad you found it "interesting." ;)

Girls are complicated. Guys are jerks. There. I just stereotyped the human race.

I think it's possible to be good friends with someone of the opposite gender and not be attracted to them. It works for me in a lot of cases (even though attraction is a factor a lot of the times too). It might not be common, but it's possible.

Sorry about your lost friend, but like you said, if it was that easy to lose, it probably wasn't the strongest friendship anyway.

cheers

Ben