Dear Queen Bee,
I have a problem.
there are five guys who are "in love with me"
and I like them all. is that possible?
i know i should think myself lucky
but it feels like more of a curse
if only one guy liked me then choosing would not be a problem.
but now if i choose one the other four will be lost
it sounds shallow
but i think selfish is a better word


All i want is to be friends
but i know if i tell them that
we will be friends,
The kind that passes each other in hallways
without looking at each other.
The kind that smiles politely in group conversations
but never talks to you one on one.
so i go on because i cannot bear to loose another friend.
And then my one real guy friend,
I have fallen for.
But he has no clue
and i cannot tell him for fear of ruining our friendship.
What should I do??
- Unsure
Dear Unsure,
You really have dug yourself into a hole.
It sounds like you are not completely satisfied with any of the guys you spoke of.
My advice is don't settle.
You are worth more than that.
But leading guys on is deceptive and unkind.
Gently tell them how you feel and hope for the best.
If you have truly fallen for the guy that is your friend then the question is:
are you willing to risk your friendship?
That is a decision that i cannot make for you.
but long as you follow your heart I believe that you will do the right thing.
-Queen Bee